As Lisa mentioned yesterday it seems there’s been a turning point in the last week or so. It’s now totally acceptable to refer to the C-word by it’s real name. Ho, ho, ho and all that jazz, it’s Christmaaaaaaasssss. Well it’s on its way at least, and with bells on too.
Halloween is getting so big in the UK it appears to be pushing back the arrival of tinsel to the shelves. (Well in Northamptonshire anyway). Despite being a lover of all things yule I’m in favour of the somewhat delayed unveiling of Chrimbo. I’m hoping the later arrival will mean folks are tempted to really enjoy the festive period, rather than getting carried away in August and then being so tired of Christmas the tree gets taken down on Boxing Day. Let’s keep our Douglas Firs up until January people!
There’s no denying Christmas is really expensive. On that note, how cute is the card at the top of the post from Bonny Blackbird? In the past I’ve started really, really early with the shopping to spread the cost, however I’ve also ended up getting fatigue as the whole shopping malarky has gone on forever, spread out over weeks and weeks. These days I put aside a bit of money every payday through the year to cover the expense and spend a much shorter period buying presents.
Like Charlotte, we’re hosting Christmas too. Though when I say hosting, I mean the term loosely as my sister-in-law’s other half has requested to do ALL the cooking. I know. Super lucky right? I even had to put up a fight to be chief prosecco pourer. James and I have composed a list not of presents but of every single job that needs doing on the house before we’ll allow our family in. It seems perfectly acceptable to let them in for dinner on any other given Sunday but whack the word ‘Christmas’ in front and we simply must redecorate and retile the kitchen, fix the shower and buy new beds before anyone passes over the threshold. I need more than five weeks, more like five months.
So ladies, I have to ask. When does Christmas start (and end) for you? There’s less than 40 days to go until the big day and I’m feeling a bit perplexed. So far I’ve bought one present, some napkins and a bauble. (Brother-in-law will be pleased, the rest of the family maybe not so). Charlotte has tempted me to copy her with both these John Lewis plates and Cox and Cox crackers but I’m more concerned the dining room is currently half painted and I’ve got tile samples coming out of my ears. Am I behind? Or is this pretty normal?
When do you find yourself getting in the festive spirit? When do you start prepping for the big day and when do the celebrations kick off for you? So many questions, but I’m all ears. Oh and while we’re on the subject of Noel, nip on over to RMF to chat about where you’re spending Christmas and RMW to talk winter weddings.
I don’t even think about it til after my daughter’s birthday on 20th Nov. First weekend in December for me is soonest I would start decorating or anything.
This year is the first year I won’t have the whole Christmas/ twixtmas/ New Year period off (20 years working or being in education) so it feels a bit different and fitting in seeing 2 families is starting to feel a PITA rather than a pleasure. I’m working til 9pm on 23rd and back at 7am on Boxing Day so actual relaxing time is about Nil. We like to make a bit of a fuss on Christmas Eve (walk, movie with hot choc, christmas PJs) and this year I think celebrations will be limited to those 2 days.
I’ve only ever had one year off over Christmas/twixtmas so it must be a bit of a shock to the system after 20 years. Hope you have a wonderful, if brief, Christmas Rachel x
I’m totally with you on the jobs to do before Christmas. There are 15 things on my house to do list ranging from big jobs such as completely redecorate my toddler’s room to smaller roles like change the handles on the hallway cabinet. We’re not hosting Christmas this year but we are still having our annual Christmas Eve party and I just want it to look good! We’re quite traditional really, Christmas starts on the 1st of December and ends in that lull between New Year’s Day and returning to work.. I love Christmas!
Glad I’m not the only one with a long list of jobs Jennifer! I might need to hear about these handles. Currently upcycling my old dressing table…
Well.. I have been on a serious knob (lols!) buying spree in recent months.. Best finds have been M&S – recommended from these very pages, anthropology and eBay. My daughter’s room is getting a serious case of the woodland animal trend and I found some hare and fox knobs on eBay and an amazing grey handle at Anthropology of the side profile of a rabbit. They also had some great art deco ones that are going in my hallway to dress up the electricity meter cupboard. I love the instant update a lick of paint and a change of the handles can do..
Your jobs sound much more adventurous than mine though so good luck!
I haven’t even begun to think about Christmas yet! We moved house to a completely different area of the country (beautiful Somerset) four weeks ago to start our new business, so we’ve been a bit preoccupied! Fortunately we’re going to my mother in law for Christmas and New Year, so all we have to do is think about presents for everyone, and get some wine sent up on advance. I fear my lovely Victorian villa may have to be a little unadorned this year!
Congrats on the move Denise – sounds really exciting and what a gorgeous place to move to! x
5th November marks winter coats and mulled wine, and hopefully a bit of planning. I try not to get too Christmassy before December as do find it loses some of its sparkle otherwise. Hoping this year will be a bit different as off to Prague for the Christmas markets on 5th December which I hope will fill me with more Christmas spirit (and mulled wine!) Than I can handle. Christmas dinner in a restaurant this year is also going to be a new experience! Xx
Ooh Christmas in a restaurant. I can definitely see the appeal. How many of you are going?
8 of us so should be good fun! Xx
I love this post! Although I have to admit I am guilty of getting carried away with Christmas far too early and then being over it as soon as Christmas Day is done (I had taken all my decs down before 10am on Boxing Day last year – shame on me!)
We are still undecided on where we are having it this year but like you, I am running around like a loony trying to get all the things done that I didn’t manage this year – new carpet in the hall / re-grouting the bathroom – all the essential jobs that I’m sure are going to make all the difference to everyone’s Christmas Day!
My decs will be going up last weekend in November as always, it’s one of my favourite days of the year! I spend the whole day doing it with the Christmas tunes blasting and eat my first mince pie (or two!) of the year! Can’t wait! x
Ah Kate – it made me sad when the whole of Instagram had an early spring clean on boxing day!
New carpet in the hall is an essential part of everyone’s Christmas 😉
Oh and one more thing….what is twixtmas?! x
The funny bit between Christmas and New Year 😉 x
I start getting excited in November and have done a good chunk of Christmas shopping. I plan on buying some new decorations, cards, and hopefully finishing off shopping by December. First week of December celebrations kick in for me, we decorate the first weekend, Michael Buble is permanently playing and mulled wine and mince pies become about 95% of my diet.
I had my first mince pie last week. So good!
My new Christmas tree – courtesy of Cox & Cox arrived yesterday – I will be putting it up on Dec 1st 🙂 I have already had my first mince pie(s) of the season! I have treated myself to the LookFantastic advent calendar…present buying has properly started. I didn’t do Christmas last year – so I am fully embracing it this year!!
However – I have decided that I want to re-decorate my living room before Christmas – I don’t have any visitors as I will be at my Mum’s over Christmas – but has been on my to do list – and there is nothing like giving yourself a deadline to actually focus yourself and get something done – I know I will be cursing this decision this weekend as everything always takes longer than you think!!!
Roll on Dec 1st!!!
Janey, do you like your Cox and Cox tree? I look at them every year, but have never taken the plunge as I can’t see it in real life and am worried it won’t look as gorgeous as in the catalogue! Interested to hear from someone who actually owns one (jealous!). x
I highly recommend the Cox and Cox white birch light up trees (http://www.coxandcox.co.uk/christmas/trees/birch-indoor-outdoor-light-up-trees). We purchased one last year and its beautiful (although we use it indoors, not sure if it would really survive outside!) xx
So sweet x
Tracey – I will open it up tonight and let you know my verdict – I went for this one http://www.coxandcox.co.uk/christmas/birch-indoor-outdoor-light-up-trees so I am hoping it will be stunning 🙂 I did take advantage of a 20% discount code mind 😀 x
Thanks Janey, please do update this post when you’ve unpacked it! I’m on their mailing list so could avail of the 20% discount if I decide to take the plunge. I love their birch trees, though never sure what height I would need. What size did you get? And are you planning to hang a few baubles on it or leave it plain? Both can look lovely. Who knew Christmas decorations could be so complicated? 😉 x
Hi Tracey, I’ve just unveiled the cox & cox and it is lushness!!! I went for 1.25m one as I didn’t want a big tree…and I bought their blush and copper mini baubles to adorn it 🙂
I say go for it…you won’t regret it!!! x
Thanks Janey. Your tree will be gorgeous. I’m so tempted now… x
Do it….:) x
I went on a girly outing to the Country Living Christmas Fair this past weekend, and I have to say it has pushed me into Christmas mode. I even sat down with all my Christmas cards on Sunday in an attempt to write them (side-tracked by my kids nicking all my glitter pens). Having said that, I did attempt to play my fave Michael Buble Christmas CD whilst writing said cards, and my husband hit the roof and said it was inappropriate for mid-November. My birthday is at the end of this month and we’ll be hosting a dinner party, so I might start putting a few decs up for then, but tree won’t be purchased until 1st or 2nd weekend of December, then we’ll be in full swing. 3 kids in the house means we stretch our Christmas period to cover a good 5-6 weeks! Good luck with the decorating – perhaps accompany it with festive tunes & mulled wine rewards later? Never fails to put me in a merry mood 🙂
Oh I bet it as so Christmassy at the fair. You’re so good writing your Christmas cards. I normally do mine about two days before the big day!
Our house is going to be nowhere near finished by the 25th. Although I am hoping to have some of the rooms painted and more of the boxes unpacked (!)
I’m making up for the mess with those fancy plates and crackers 🙂
And actually I’m feeling very festive now that I have started buying decorations and things. We plan on putting up our tree on the 1st December, which is probably the day that Christmas REALLY starts for us xx
I’m with you on the 1st Charlotte x
I’ve done nearly all of my Christmas shopping as I like to have it done early and my MOT is due in December so I have to factor in possible unexpected costs (rubbish!), but I don’t put up any decorations until the first or second week of December. I had a spruce up of the house and did a bit of decorating last month so there is nothing too major to worry about. I totally get the panic about wanting to be in an order you are comfortable with as I may have been touching up a bit of paint and rearranging photos in frames last night just for the girls coming round for drinks on Saturday! My hubby was doing a lot of eye rolling at this.
I’ve just realised my flipping MOT is due on the 23rd December. Will have to get it done earlier! Have a lovely time on Saturday! x
Ah I love Christmas and the build up, I’m like a big kid! We are off to the Christmas markets in bath and staying in a cottage for a week in Dec so that’s going to get us right in the mood for it! I love decorating and dedicate an evening to it with prosecco cheesy music warm mince pies and clotted cream, and my niece usually comes to help (but isn’t allowed to actually decorate for real…OCD and all that ?)! Anyway November I’m mostly trying to avoid tucking into mince pies too early (so far dodged them) and just generally finishing off presents, we have bought everyone’s presents now just need to wrap them (again another entire Christmassy evening affair!)!
We are also half way through making our house our own so I feel your pain about feeling like it can’t possible happen before it’s finished but sadly we aren’t going to be finished for a while and are waiting for Jan sales for the big furniture haul so I’m just going to make it as pretty as can be for now! The thing is when it is all finished I’ll be down to work all next Christmas so that’s a bit crap! We are going to my sisters for Christmas morning and back to ours the two of us for the evening and dinner, I love family time but as we have rarely much time together it’s nice to have it the two of us!
Xx
Just imagine how fabulous it will be next year when you have the house exactly how you want it.
Bath market sounds so lovely x
Xmas has been a bit weird for me since my mum and dad and my older sister moved abroad 10 years ago. We always used to have lovely family get togethers but mostly it’s just me and my husband and whilst peaceful, it’s not very Christmassy. Last year we went travelling straight after Christmas and so didn’t bother with any decorations. This year we are spending it with my younger sister and her brood, so on the plus we are looking forward to seeing them and on the minus, we won’t bother with decorations again this year. Normally though Christmas for me really starts with the tree which I don’t put up until a week before Christmas, but with family living abroad I have to start the present buying early, so I can post out in time.
Ahh Kate, can’t you put up just a few decorations? Just a few fairy lights maybe?
The tree will go up on the first week of December but I need to buy a whole new set of decorations this year as nothing matches our new living room – Hubby not happy about that! Also I just haven’t been able to face any shopping yet but really must crack on as we have TWENTY TWO nieces and nephews between us!
Oh. My. God. That is a lot of little ones!
I LOVE Christmas but do think it all seems to start too early. Although I think about it a lot in November I try to hold off most things until December, I may have had Christmas pudding last week though – opps! Our tree and decoration goes up the first weekend in December and I love a full month of Christmas festivities with the decorations coming down in the new year.
Its our first Christmas in our new house, last year while everyone was putting up trees we were knocking walls down so I cant wait to get all of the Christmas decorations down from the attic this year and find new places to house them.
I love making an evening of decorating, wrapping presents etc. it really gets you in the mood!
Perfect Carly x
My first baby is due on the 3rd December so I’m hoping that I can put all my decorations up between when I finally finish work next week and him actually arriving!
Aiming to be organised with present buying and wrapping but it will probably be done last minute with a newborn in tow based on my previous form. ?
I was similar to you last year Sarah, baby was due on Nov 24th but didn’t arrive till Dec 5th. I finished work on Nov 23rd and had all my decorations up, presents bought and wrapped under the tree by the end of Nov! This year I’m not doing anything till after his birthday and I’ll keep it like that forever so his birthday is separate and important before the madness of Christmas begins! It’s actually wuite nice to have a definite date for when Christmas will start! Good luck, hope it all goes well for you. Lx
Thanks Laura!
Yes, starting Christmas after birthday will be the plan for future.
I’m in awe that you got everything sorted AND still worked right up to due date xx
Ahh, huge congrats Sarah. What a lovely Christmas you’ll have x
I LOVE Christmas, but get a bit over-excited and have to be reined in… I start buying presents in January, slightly ridiculously, and accumulate things throughout the year as stockings are a huge thing in my family, not so much size but the sentimental value of them, and they are always full of meaningful things (with a few bits of random stuff for added fun). Christmas itself doesn’t start until the first or second week of December for us. I try for 1st December but my husband firmly resists (despite starting to sing carols in August this year?!). Lots of carols, present wrapping, tree decorating – and of course the drinks party that then involves a long list of house jobs that must be done!! Good luck with the house, I’m sure it will feel Christmassy as soon as you have ticked some of the things off the to-do list and the end is in sight.
Thanks Annie. Think we’ll make some good progress this weekend.
I’m sure you can talk your husband round to starting celebrations on the 1st 😉
Crikey, I feel like such a Scrooge after reading all the comments above! It’s not that I don’t love Christmas (I love it really, promise!) but I don’t get properly excited until I’m done with work on the 23rd/24th. I love the Christmas adverts, love a good carol and a good Christmas tune on the radio, but I feel like the whole process is so dragged out that it loses its shine for me after a while.
I think my approach to Christmas is very much influenced by my Mum – both my Dad and I have December birthdays and she was always adamant that it was our birthdays first and then Christmas. My Dad’s birthday isn’t until the 21st, so the Christmas tree/decs never goes up in their house until the 22nd at the very earliest (but she does keep them up until 6th January). This year, we’re going to them on the 24th, so I won’t put up any Christmas decorations in our own flat at all this year…!
That said, the husband bought me the M&S Beauty advent calendar (he got a bargain as well with their offer at the moment – spend £35 and get the advent calendar for £35 rather then the usual £250!) so that now has pride of place on the bookshelf, waiting to be opened on the 1st 🙂 Definitely looking forward to that I have to admit!
The M&S Calendar looks so good! Have fun opening all those treats
I LOVE Christmas. In my job I’ve been working on Christmas designs since July so I’m super ready to get festive.
This year I am hosting for the first time, and would love a post with recipe suggestions for Christmas Day lunch as I have a lot to live up to and don’t have time to practice. So any suggestions greatfully received!
Hi Becky, hopefully you can find a few tips here – http://rockmystyle.co.uk/mabels-first-christmas/ x
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