I have two pristine white boxes upstairs in my house. Two bedrooms remain unfinished as I have been struck by a case of decorating paralysis. In the past I may have been subjected to a few weeks of dithering over decor but this time it’s hit me hard and my dressing room/spare bedroom has been the biggest victim.
Gold or copper? Black or white? Typography or photography? Blah, blah, blah. My inability to make a decision has led to me returning no less than three Beni Ourain style rugs. (BTW the La Redoute one is great quality but it’s most definitely brown). I’ve lost hours to the internet aimlessly wandering around looking for tat to put in these bedrooms and I’ve bored myself silly.
So, last weekend I gave myself a good talking to. Having my sister there also helped as I actually had a two-way conversation rather than a Shirley Valentine talk-to-the-wall moment and I’m pleased to report my interior decoration mojo has returned. Here are my three tips for anyone else dealing with a case of decorating apathy.
Don’t Let Rogue Items Throw You
Once the dressing room was painted I filled it with the furniture which had once resided in there. My budget is low and I convinced myself I’d replace the furniture bit by bit. I’d say visualisation is one of my few talents and I can often see potential in the most dire of spaces. Not here though. The chalk pink bedside tables were throwing me off. Big time. So I removed every single item from the room which I knew wouldn’t make it to the final design. Ta ra upholstered headboard, it’s been emotional. Just like that I saw the room with a fresh pair of eyes.
Ditch Pinterest
As one of my lovely Instagram followers remarked, Pinterest is both my utopia and my nemesis. I’d been perusing all manner of styles for this room and flitted between an organic, deconstructed space and an ultra feminine boudoir, with all sorts of combos in between. In the end I settled on one source for my inspiration. Well hello there Audrey Leighton and your simple stylish rose gold, grey and monochrome decor seen in the slider above. Pinterest I do love you but you can have too much of a good thing.
Set A Budget
I don’t have a large budget for my house remodel and haven’t wanted to part with hard earned cash for a fleeting fad. However, I appreciate copper and I like marble and so however short-lived the trend may be I’d like my piece of it. It’s just I’m going to have a very small piece of it.
I’ve set myself a budget of £100 for items I know I’ll switch out over the next few years. The bits that are bound to date and I won’t feel bad about packing them off to the charity shop as I didn’t spend half my salary on them. For the bigger, pricier investments I’ll stick with the classics, however I am well aware I’ve contradicted myself by mentioning a bit of a spendy candle in the shopping list below.
Anyone else had a case of decorating fear? How did you overcome it and get your mojo back? Hopefully I’ll be back in a month or so to share the finished article.
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I’ve got the fear big time as we’ve just got the keys to our new house and every room needs decoration. We’ve decided on a new kitchen, and I’d like to paint every room in a pale grey and work colourful accessories in from there, but finding a pale grey is hard (we are kind recipients of free paint from a relative who works in the industry but just have to choose colours) And my biggest worry is getting it all done before we have to move (about 4 weeks) as I have no time I can take off work and also have a toddler to deal with!
Claire, big congrats on getting the keys! Lots of grey paint recommendations here and here x
Yes. Our barn project has been in my head for so long that I’m losing my nerve- my ideas have changed over the years it’s taken to get planning and get going and I have now got design stage fright- I was so certain before, what if I hate what we do now in a year? It’s mostly kitchen centred- everything else is changeable and clear cut in my head but kitchens are so damn expensive…
Also I love the marble accessories you’ve picked out and have got the Prada sign (but customised for our favourite Tuscan village) for the problem kitchen… So that’s something.
Lucy, I adore you have a Tuscan village version. Where did you manage to get that?
We’ve got a small back bedroom that we want to make in a really smart guest room (hoping to do air bnb) its the smallest room in our house but my personal fave as it has sloping ceiling and quirky angled walls. We also benefit from a lovely view of the mountains from that room but I have no idea how to decorate!! As this is the first room that I have not had any furniture to start with and adapt the whole room to Im overwhelmed by a total blank canvas! Im thinking a black metal ‘hospital bed’ with lots of white linen, perhaps a faux fur throw but not a clue with anything else :/ any ideas? your taste is the best!!
Oh Cat, what a gorgeous space you have. I don’t think you’ll need anything else with that stunner of a backdrop! x
I’m having similar issues decorating the last room in our new house. It’s a spare room/office space (I always think duel purpose rooms are the hardest!) and needs to be comfy and cosy for guests (my parents visit regularly and my brother and sister in law will be living in it for 2-3 months) whilst storing all our life admin, computer and craft supplies and some out of season clothing. Going to start by getting rid of the magnolia walls with fresh white paint and hoping that will help me see the space differently… And now a very boring question… What do people use to store all their paperwork?! We have a filing cabinet currently but it’s so big and ugly but oh so very functional… Any tips for a stylish yet practical filing solution?
Hi Martha, I store all mine in a big cabinet (that has a vintage feel but is actually just a couple of years old) plus an ottoman at the end of the bed. There are some lovely coloured filing cabinets around though.
I find that you need time to settle into a house and get a feel for what type of colours/items suit the space. I am really not keen on reds but the last house we were in felt like a ‘red house’. I just used rugs, cushions and a few accessories but it made the house feel warm and homely. My current house suits bluey greens. As much as you have a vision, or not, as this case may be, I think you sometimes need to get the feel of what will work even if it does mean getting rid of items you once loved.
Couldn’t agree more Claire. Some times it’s just better to move on x
Hi Lauren, I bought at rug also from la resolute but they do it in black and also brown, I’m not sure if they still have black ones in stock? I have the black and it looks fab. Very Scandi xx
I know the one Rachel – gorgeous. I think I might skip the rug now but have got that one earmarked for the dining room x
Sorry la redoute x
for a filing cabinet I had two great finds (one was free and the other was about £30 but I’ll post images I can find online for a similar look.
They both get lots of compliments.
http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/1930s-industrial-Bisley-green-metal-ten-drawer-filing-cabinet-vintage-retro-/282052630507?hash=item41aba597eb%3Ag%3AA5UAAOSwIzNXO3Tu&nma=true&si=Hz9WOQdHa%252Fx%252FxHBbIStdPOxCxhs%253D&orig_cvip=true&rt=nc&_trksid=p2047675.l2557
one similar to this but taller
and
https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/88/7d/52/887d529fdafcb5ad1dc1361cceb744cb.jpg one simialr to this… sorry for my bad links 🙂
Lovely finds Cat x
Yeeeesss!!! I have been stuck in a bedroom decorating dilemma for ages – having moved into a magnolia house last year – it really is a blank canvas – but whilst I knew exactly the sort of look I was after finding the right wallpaper for behind the bed and then the right grey to go on the wall has been a headache and a half!!! Plus the fact there are built in wardrobes (amazing) but with a cream veneer that I needed to contend with – and the fear of getting that wrong also stalled me. But it is now all systems go – wardrobes have been sanded and primed (and already look a whole heap better) – colour for the walls has been bought (Dulux White Mist – a gorgeous soft grey) and wallpaper ordered (http://www.muralswallpaper.co.uk/sea-trees-forest-mural-wallpaper).
So here’s hoping the mojo sticks around for a while 🙂
Good work Janey. What’s your plan for the wardrobe doors?
The plan is – keep it simple – I am going to paint them in white mist – so the same colour as the walls so they sink in – but then find some gorgeous door knobs to add some glamour 🙂 So Lauren any suggestions of where is good to look such items of gorgeousness much appreciated 🙂
Have you see that Oliver Bonas are now doing handles? There’s a few online but more in store – https://www.oliverbonas.com/homeware/category/drawer-pulls#show=2. Always love Anthroplogie for knobs too x
oooo thank you Lauren – just checked out Anthroplogie – sooo much gorgeous choice 🙂 x
I completely feel your pain…we moved into our new home in November last year and I have eased myself into decorating slowly. I would love to get it all done, but I’m forcing myself to have patience. I’m an interior designer, I have no excuse; except that I spend all day creating beautiful homes for clients….its the last thing I want to think about when I come home! Don’t forget to look at H&M home for on trend, budget friendly items – they have some fab things at the moment which may work well with your chosen scheme. Good luck with it all 🙂
Hi Danielle, I love a H&M haul! Good luck with your decorating x