Morning all, it’s Lauren here. Thanks for all your thoughtful comments on Fern’s recent post. We thought you’d like to get to know our Fern even better so we’ve asked her to share her maternity style with you. Though some the items aren’t available to purchase we hope this will give you a little style inspiration if you’re pregnant during the colder months. Over to Fern.
My main focus during my pregnancy so far has been to try to focus on the positive changes to my body – bigger boobs when you’re pretty flat chested is always a bonus, as is thicker hair when yours is usually really fine and flyaway. At the moment these thoughts are getting me through – but I know I’m only growing one way from here and I’m not sure how long I’ll keep the positive thinking up for!
Outfit 1
My beloved Pepe jeans leather jacket was never going to be removed from my wardrobe for the Autumn/Winter season and although I can no longer do it up – just wearing it makes me feel better about myself. I’ve found myself turning to the prints in my wardrobe more and more, maybe in the hope that it will distract people and stop them from staring and wondering if I’ve just eaten too many burgers or if I am in fact, pregnant. (A man genuinely asked me this a few weeks ago)! The dress and jumper are both from Topshop. The ankle boots are from River Island and they currently have some similar ones with a metal trim.
Outfit 2
I have been living in extra long vests from H&M as they are so comfortable. I also have a tendency to get cold and the extra layer definitely helps. This Topshop tunic is easy to wear and I actually quite like the way the stripes accentuate my bump. Personally, I’ve found a dress and tights combination much more comfortable than wearing trousers. Tights wise – I’d recommend decent quality M&S ones, just try a size up if you feel restricted in your normal size. The parka is from ASOS and it’s roomy enough to zip up if it’s cold.
Outfit 3
We have a very boisterous puppy called Drake who needs walking twice a day. Layers are best for this kind of activity as I invariably start out freezing but end up in a sweat. For keeping warm outside when tights just won’t cut it – I’d really recommend Topshop’s maternity leggings. They are super thick and the extra bit of material for the bump is really comfortable. When you first get them, they do appear rather wetsuit-esque, but I promise they soften up really nicely and you’ll literally want to live in them.
My quilted coat is from Zara, the checked shirt is from Abercrombie & Fitch and the grey scarf was a present from Matt’s Mum with a built in hood which I love.
Outfit 4
It’s universally known that black is slimming, so if I’m having an urrrrggghhh day I’ll wear all black and throw on something colourful. I love mustard yellow, whether it’s on trend or not and this Misguided cardigan (that I stole from my sister) is one of my favourites. As is this John Lewis scarf, which again is good for bump hiding if you’re feeling self conscious.
Outfit 5
This outfit should come with a caveat – there’s no way I could wear this for more than a few hours – but you can’t feel entirely unsexy for nine months and sometimes a bit of glitz is needed. For these occasions, I’d recommend tube skirts, i.e. those with no zips or fasteners – you just pull them on. Any length, any print, any colour – a tube skirt in a bigger size is really comfortable and can easily be dressed up. This one is jersey material underneath the sequins and so I can make it sit below or above the bump depending on which is more comfortable. My skirt was from H&M a few seasons ago. This year they have another sparkly one but this has zips. Heel wise, I’ve been sticking with wedges. These are my beloved Autumn boots from Aldo and I’d be lost without them. Stilettos can be tough on your feet at the best of times and when your sense of balance is off too, I’ve found wedges are definitely a bit safer!!
Something I really need some advice on though lovely readers is good maternity bras – has anyone discovered any that are still relatively pretty?
You RMS/RMW girls are so effortlessly glam! love the wee sequin mini, and the cozy layered looks. x
Aww thanks M-J! x
Great post, Fern you look fab. I am currently only 10 weeks pregnant but have already started pondering how to keep comfy but still look semi like me when I start getting bigger. I am currently going through a very self conscious stage where I feel bigger but my husband says I look exactly the same so maybe I’m imagining it. I am going to remember to focus on the positives and also keep reminding myself why my body is changing in the way it is. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy lovely xxxx
Hi SD,
I know exactly what you mean – I just felt disgustingly bloated from weeks 9-16 but nobody else could really notice it! I promise once the bump comes you feel much less conscious and proud of being a mama-to-be.
Good luck with yours too – hopefully you’ll find the RMS maternity posts really helpful, there’s some great stuff in the archives and still to come!
Fern x
I agree with M-J, you are all so glam! I also love your hair. I am going to show my hairdresser this weekend and got something v similar. Hope the rest of your pregnancy progresses well Fern, you look fantastic xx (also…can’t believe that man asked you that!! Ridiculous)
Thanks Sian 🙂 I have random t-section highlights (two colours, one caramelly and one more blonde).
I know – some people are just so shameless!
Fern x
Loved seeing this shoot Fern (I was off styling a wedding shoot in the same venue whilst Adam was taking these images)
Funnily enough that floral dress you have on in the first image was the first thing I wore “out” that accentuated my bump. I found stretchy stuff like that really comfy yet still had shape. I also rate the Topshop leggings, I think I had at least 3 pairs on rotation!
Scarfs were also a godsend for me, and a great way to add colour to an otherwise black/grey outfit. x
Comfy dresses are definitely the best!!
I keep meaning to ask you to write a post on buying a pram/car seat/travel system Charlotte…we’re currently debating whether to invest (and hope it lasts a whole family) or go cheaper and just buy a new when if/when needed!
Fern x
Yes! I’d love to know which pushchair you went for and how you’re finding it Charlotte?
At 27 weeks I’m loving all the maternity/baby posts and Fern you look gorgeous in these pics 🙂 x
Thanks Louise!
And yes, guidance on prams would be much appreciated!
Hope your pregnancy is going ok 🙂
Fern x
I’ve been looking for yonks for a pair of black ankle boots to wear with dresses with a smallish heel that are smart – thanks for the link to those RI ones – wouldn’t have thought to look in there. I only hope they aren’t too baggy round the ankle – every single other pair I’ve tried are & its most disappointing. Love the grey ones you have on too!
Also, I have a bronze H&M sequin skirt which is a pull on one (I’m not pregnant) but I LOVE it for winter time and perfect for Christmas parties. Glamour mag has a 20% off H&M at the mo and a free Nails Inc varnish in lush shades…
OH NO! Drama – they only have size 3s left 🙁 Will have to scour the shops!
Oh thanks for the Glamour mag tip Victoria!!
I actually really like RI for shoes and boots – not so much the clothes, they always tend to go one step too far with embellishments/prints/logos…
Good luck hunting for boots.
Fern x
Two things! RI currently have a super gold sequin tube pull-on skirt at the mo. Well at least it looks nice online!
Also, & Other Stories have the most AMAZING selection of ankle boots at the moment! x
I’m 15 weeks and still at the bloated stage and instead of looking pregnant just look like I’ve decided to let myself go a bit! It’s tough putting away my lovely jeans because I can’t squeeze into them but I definitely have a new love of snuggly tights and jumper dresses. Keeping everything crossed I look as fab as you in 10 weeks time x
Aww Hannah, it is horrible when you have to say goodbye to some of your favourite clothes, but the thought of squeezing into skinny jeans right now makes me feel ill!!
I’m sure you look great and hopefully the maternity style features on RMS have shown that you don’t have to change your style too much 🙂
Fern x
Maternity bras – I’m 31 weeks and my advice is try and stay in normal bras as long as possible! I’m finding maternity bras are only slightly more comfy, but they do nothing for my shape (i’m quite big busted) and therefore make me look weird! I’ve just ordered some new ones from Debenhams in a bigger size, so hoping that will be an improvement, but I’m yet to find anything that is really pretty and doesn’t cost the earth.
I’m struggling with clothes now I’m getting bigger. I just want to be comfy, but I’m also hot and putting on tights/leggings/socks/anything that requires bending of any sort is getting difficult! Having said that, I’ve just got some maternity jeans from ASOS which are fab, and I’m still wearing a lot of my pre-pregnancy jersey tube dresses for work, with a scarf or long cardy. My hubby likes me best in stripes as he things it makes the bump look super cute. I doubt he will be saying that in another 8 weeks!
Hi Clare,
Yes stripes are best! I think they look lovely on bumps.
I’ve found my normal bras really uncomfortable – to the point where I was getting really painful back ache. Even from early on in my pregnancy 🙁
The maternity bras I’ve tried make me look a little pointy (?!) so it’s not just bigger chested ladies who they look strange on! Why can’t someone invent a maternity bra that is supportive, pretty and makes you look a nice shape?!? It can’t be that hard!
Let me know how the Debenhams ones work out for you.
Fern x
Hi Fern, loving the winter wardrobe!! I’m 37 weeks today so not long now. I love your brown flat boots. Where are they from? Bra wise. I went comfy as mine got rather large and painful and found bravado from john Lewis to be the best. They grow with you too and can be used as nursing bras after too. They wash brilliantly. They’re not that sexy I’m afraid but they do have some great Elle McPherson ones too which are a little kinder on the eye!!! Good luck you look amazing xxxx
Hi Lisa 🙂
Thank you! As I mentioned to Clare above, I’m in real need of a decent set of maternity bras, so I’ll give the bravado ones a go. It’s good to know they wash well too.
My boots are from Topshop, they were in the sale a few weeks ago for £25!!!
Hope you’re doing ok!! So close now!
Fern x
Oooh, you look so pretty! I could quite happily wear those outfits and I don’t have a bump!! Tip on maternity bras as they are all yuk so I got good old M&S t-shirt bras but the non underwired variety in a size or 2 up. They had loads of nice colours and as they are a slightly thicker fabric they don’t do the pointing! Mothercare also had some pretty sets that were again thicker fabric and had the clippy strap bits so they would last after baby was born xx
Aww thanks Charlotte.
Good shout on M&S, I must say I do like their underwear – it’s always good quality and fits well, not sure why I haven’t tried then yet…I used to wear their non-under wired t-shirt bras all the time as they give a clean shape under clothes!
Will make sure I pop in at the weekend!
Fern x
Ooo, this is very timely for me! I am 23 weeks pregnant and there is no disgusing it now..
Loving all of the fashions. I bought maternity leggings from ASOS and don’t love them so will definitely be trying some of the Topshop ones. And am about to hit up Mothercare for some maternity bras. I went there for a scan the other day and their bras looked not too horrible and come recommended by various things I have read online. I did attempt to get some from M&S but they were so hideous and made me feel so fat and frumpy that I actually cried (hormones!!) in the changing room!
The best I have felt since getting pregnant fashion wise was on a night out recently where I wore a black tshirt dress, tights, a blazer and some wedge ankle boots from Kurt Geiger. I felt like a normal person which was great!
I do have some over the bump maternity jeans from New Look which are very skinny in the leg so I plan to rock them with some Topshop Gwendas when I next go out and they also look good with some boots.
Other than that, my go to style is a tightish tshirt dress with a loose short jumper over the top and tights. Pretty much anything that stretches to be honest!
Hi Jennifer!
Yep – definitely try the Topshop ones!
Lol at you crying in the M&S changing rooms…although I’ve been know to cry in changing rooms even when not pregnant – sometimes the lighting and multi angled mirrors are just TOO harsh.
Pregnancy hormone wise – I cried in Morrisons when I was having cravings for falafels and there weren’t any left so don’t worry. (I know – falafels?!?!)
Love the sound of your night out outfit 🙂
Fern x
I cried last night because I was really tired and didn’t want to clean my teeth because I knew it was going to make me throw up in the sink. Again.
It was officially a new low! Although the falafel sounds pretty close..
Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy! Xx
I love your pregnancy style. You look amazing. Maternity (and nursing) bras are on the whole horrendous. Amoralia (http://www.amoralia.com/) do some pretty styles as do Elle Macpherson intimates. These are my ‘fancy’ favourites. For practical everyday wear I alternate between Shock Absorber sport bras, which offer good support and decent shape without the wires, and Freya non-wired t-shirt bras, which make the most of my enhanced cleavage! Good luck!
Thanks Laura Jane!!
Just had a look at Amoralia – they do quite a few nice bits – but you’re right maternity bras are pretty horrendous!
Good tip on the sports bras – I hadn’t thought of that as a alternative.
Fern x
Ooo I didnt realise Freya did maternity, just been having a look, they have some pretty styles as do Panache, very good for larger busted ladies!
For bras, I stayed in M&S unwired t-shirt bras throughout my pregnancy, with some of those bra strap extender thingummies (also from M&S) to extend the back. I have the smallest boobs ever though (I’m not exaggerating!) so this might not suit everyone, but it was a cheap option and I wear the bras again now, without the extenders (my daughter is 13months old). But if you’re looking for fancy nursing bras then I can’t help as I stayed in cheapo boring “unsexy” ones for a whole year until I went back to work, then switched back to normal bras as I only feed twice a day now. I seem to be unusual in that I didn’t care about feeling “sexy” when preggo or breastfeeding so I wasn’t really bothered what my underwear looked like as long as it was comfy!
You look lovely at 26 weeks Fern, good luck for the rest of your pregnancy, it’s such a great time so enjoy it! x
Hi Sophie,
Thanks for your comment, I’m very flat chested too normally, so will give the M&S t-shirt bras a go.
There’s nothing wrong with not being bothered about feeling sexy during pregnancy – it’s hard to feel sexy when you feel huge and exhausted and highly emotional!! I can’t see myself feeling particularly attractive once the baby is here!!
I’m definitely trying to make the most of it – totally cheesy but it really is a magical thing 🙂
Fern x
It’s worth a try, and they’re not pricey.
Obviously nothing wrong with wanting to feel sexy either! Each to their own, I did feel very happy and content during my pregnancy but sexy? Not so much! And definitely not after baby arrives! I think as women we put an awful lot of pressure on ourselves to be sexy/gorgeous/put-together/stylish/feminine all the time…. but having a baby is really hard work and you won’t feel glam 24/7! That’s not to be negative, because being a parent is absolutely amazing, but being realistic is definitely the way to go (in my opinion).
I loved being pregnant and am so with you on the magical feeling! Enjoy! xx
Oh definitely Sophie – there have been many moments so far where I’ve been in slouchy bottoms, t-shirts and cardigans with zero make up and my hair piled on top of my head…and do you know what? I actually couldn’t care less what anyone thinks I look like! Because I’m growing a baby and that’s far more important than superficial things.
I think you should go with however YOU feel, but you’re right, us ladies have a tendency to put a crazy amount of pressure on ourselves to maintain the ‘feminine allure.’
Fern x
Amazing post and you look gorgeous!! So beautiful and glowy… Not long to wait now either ☺️
I’m 19 weeks and just bought a tonne of stuff in H and M- always been very flat of tum (weight goes on legs) so bump popped out by 12 weeks and feels massive- you are so right about H and M vests to keep warm and comfy! They also have great men’s t shirts with cool prints that I layer over the vests a couple of sizes up to get longer dress like length- sounds weird but I promise it works!
Also NOT into maternity bras, they just made me go ugh. Living in super soft no wire sports bras- so comfy.
I actually have a massive dilemma- guest at a wedding in March and can’t find any outfits that I like- will be 4 weeks from due date and as I feel like Shamu already I am dreading finding something. Oh glam RMS Mummies, help!!!
Hey Lucy, I had a wedding to attend when I was 7 months gone and I found a beautiful maternity dress from Topshop, but on eBay for a fraction of the original price! I bought quite a lot of maternity stuff on eBay, most of which was fantastic but the bits that didn’t fit I sold back on eBay (usually for more than I paid for them!). I would recommend looking, especially whilst you have the time to browse/bid. If you have more cash to splurge then I’ve heard Seraphine or Isabelle Oliver do lovely dresses (not bought one myself due to budget but they do look gorge!)
Good luck and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy!
Sophie x
Thanks Lucy and thanks for the H&M tip – you can find some great stuff in menswear! I know Charlotte swears by mens knitwear!!
I totally agree with Sophie’s suggestions below, but I would say don’t buy anything too early, as your bump grows so quickly and will change shape too. I’ve got a dress that I bought really early on that actually looks awful now and I thought it would be perfect for when I got bigger.
I loved the sound of Jennifer’s smart outfit above – I think a loose comfortable dress or one which wraps around with a blazer/jacket to give you some shape would be perfect.
Some ladies look gorge in maxi dresses when pregnant too – just channel your inner Blake Lively 😉
Fern x
Awwww you look so gorgeous! I have serious bump-envy!!
Thanks Amanda!! Love your comments on Lauren’s Christmas post btw – you’ve got me really excited now!! x
Bras have been a nightmare! I’m 35 weeks & larger in the chest area – agreed re:pointy look, also mothercare non-wired made ’em spread out really wide (not a good look to carry your boobs under your armpits!) I grew really early on & visited a local independent bra shop for advice. I’ve continued with wires for support (v little evidence to say they affect milk production) however with my bra lady’s advice went for styles that the wire doesn’t come up too high under the arm. Due back to see her next week for a nursing bra fitting. Check out hot milk bras online for pretty nursing bras.
Thanks for your advice Sarah…being small chested, I’m afraid to say I’ve never even been properly measured before…
Now might be a good time to start looking after myself properly! I like the look of hot milk, they’ve got some really pretty styles!
Your lady sounds great, I hope you find some lovely and nicely fitting nursing bras with her help 🙂
Fern x
I am 27 weeks at the moment. I am happy that baby is healthy so far however I do want to look good when I go out. I feel enormous most of the time. By looking at your outfits give me some inspiration of what to wear! I have been looking for some good maternity legging and will definitely try topshop!! One thing I miss is to wear heels but I cannot wear them now as I have pain in the leg…
Thanks Joey 🙂
Yep do try the Topshop leggings, I’m think of getting some of their slouchy joggers too.
Don’t wear heels if they are uncomfortable. During pregnancy you could save up for a really nice pair and treat yourself once the baby comes!
Fern x
Hi Fern,
You are looking great! I am also 26 weeks pregnant with my first baby but it has been far from smooth sailing! Because I’ve been signed off work for the last few months, I haven’t really bothered too much with maternity clothes as no one ever sees me. But you have inspired me to get dressed in something nice even if it’s just for me to cheer myself up!
I went to mothercare for maternity bras, they are super comfy and the ladies in there have been so helpful. They had some pretty ones as well as good basics. Might be worth a look if you are still struggling 🙂
Lots of luck with the last few months xx
Hi Frankie,
Congratulations – I hope things are going ok for you. It must be hard not having work to distract you from things!
Thanks for the Mothercare tip!
Honestly, the days when I get dressed up and put some make up on are always better days!!
Fern x
Bit late to the game but Elle McPhearson bras are the best I’ve found- and if you get the nursing ones they last once the babies born. So comfortable but pretty too – and if you can find an outlet store they were doing an offer of 3 for £35 which is a pretty good deal! Only maternity clothes I’ve been able to get excited about!
Ohhhh 3 for £35 is really good!!! Which outlet did you find these at Pippa?
Fern x