I want to start this post by saying that I am so very aware that not everyone will have the luxury of time during this governmental lockdown. I have many a friend and family in the NHS or other keyworkers who are already being worked to the bone and can only see more of that ahead of them. We stood on our step tonight (the night before this post was published) and we whooped and clapped and banged pots in the only way we currently know how to say thanks. Truly. Thank you.
For some of us, we’re being called to work from home, in my husband’s case, stand down from work in an industry that has evaporated overnight. For some, it’s juggling kids and homeschooling. For others is some kind of combination of all of the above. In addition to that, most are worrying for and in some cases caring for the elderly and vulnerable. And we have ourselves a never before seen stew of household upheaval.
But to keep me sane, focused and replace time spent socialising and going out in general, I’m creating a Lockdown List. A non-commital list of things that I’d like to get round to doing now that we have a bit of enforced downtime at home ahead of us. This list does not contain such grandiose things as learning a new language or reading the entire works of Shakespeare like some celebrities are hoping to do. With a toddler currently going through the ‘biting phase’ I can safely say that peace for such lengthy and complex pursuits will be in short supply. But there are a few things I can definitely get up to. And here is my list:
- Play a game of Bake Off with my son – My 6-year-old Ethan loves Bake Off. And he’s forever asking me to bake things so he can judge them. This time I’ll let him give me a theme and a time limit and we’ll do the whole shebang together.
- Painting our bedroom – We’ve lived in our house for two years and it’s the only unpainted room. This needs to change. Although will need to be conducted after kids bedtimes and during nap times.
- Doing up the back garden – My garden office is built, but unfortunately, due to a short supply of plasterboard in our area, it may be a while before it’s finished and able to be used. I had envisioned lots of time spent pottering around selecting and planting plants and generally tidying up the garden. Not as easy now that all of the garden centres are closed! Solutions for gardening supplies welcome.
- Clearing out a drawer/cupboard per week – I can’t commit to much more than that with my current work/homeschool/stay sane schedule. But a little bit goes a long way. And let me tell you, my drawer/cupboard came right now is not strong.
- Try to be patient and actively enjoy this time at home with my family – I don’t want to take it for granted. And although fuses can be a bit short when we’re all cooped up around each other (all day all the time) trying to balance work/school/life. I’m aware that this time is also, for many of us, a gift. To make memories and nourish our kids and slow the hell down.
- Read more – Rather than default to the TV as soon as the kids are asleep, I’m eager to rattle my way through some of the ever-growing stacks of books I have waiting for me. I’m usually a non-fiction girl, but the stack I have just now is mainly fiction, because… Escapism. And let’s face it, life right now is stranger than most fiction.
So that’s it. A list of very benign, everyday bits and pieces that I’d like to get done. I’d love to master the piano or be in the best shape of my life, but I know myself. And I know my current household limitations. Keeping my family of four mentally and physically healthy is my number one priority. And if I can achieve that in any one day, then it’s nice to have a list of other things to chip away at.
How about you? Do you have a list of inspiring, grand tasks to achieve? Do you have a few bits and bobs you’d like to get around to? Or can you not fathom the time for so much as making a list?
Yes to many of these! Painting stairs, our bedroom (we’ve been here six years!) and finish the landing…do something with the garden, build raised beds…put up new blind…read a stack of books…all while refereeing the 4yo and 19mo. Good luck everyone!
Haha Ali you’re speaking to my soul! Glad to see I’m not the only one trying to be ambitious with this time.
I love this article. I too have the luxury of a bit of extra time during this lockdown, and I know how lucky I am. I have never been so grateful for my health, my family, my home, my garden and my job.
I’m currently working from home so saving on a three hour commute each day. My aim is to use this time to get fitter – I am notorious for not doing enough exercise, but I would really like to complete Couch to 5K on my husband’s tired and dusty treadmill. I’ve just completed week one and I’m so proud!
I too want to read a bit more, and I’m also hoping to use this time to contact my friends through phone calls and video calls. I’ve become very lazy in recent years, and have used whatsapp as my default option. However, this has really put into perspective how important my loved ones are, and I’d like to put more effort in connecting with them. I’m even considering bringing back old fashioned letters!
That’s such a lovely perspective you have Gem, being grateful for your health etc. I’m going to need to employ a bit more of that when my patience runs short with the kids.
Also I’m jealous of your treadmill. It’s been pretty rainy up here in Scotland so although I could go out for a run, I’m not inclined to. Must try harder.
I dashed out to B&Q last week before we went into lock down and bought everything I could possibly need for the next few projects on my house to do list. With all this time on my hands I thought I’d be whizzing through it but I’ve not managed to start a single thing. Turns out keeping a family happy and healthy is a full time job! Walls may not have been painted and shelves may still be waiting to go up, but actually we’ve done so many lovely things together – craft, baking, egg and spoon races round the garden, daily Joe Wickes…. The home schooling part is a bit of a challenge but we are definitely making memories and taking less for granted which is a very big positive coming out of this awful situation.
Kirsty we’re doing daily Joe Wicks too! And I too am struggling to find bandwidth at the end of the day for other tasks. We’re yet to find our groove with homeschooling. But I’m relying on the family time to keep the kids happy and healthy first and foremost.
I’ve loved my first week of lockdown. I’ve never worked from home before, and I’m sharing the office room with my husband.
I had diy supplies delivered today to decorate the office this weekend. It was a room I wasn’t going to touch for a while, but I can’t wait to get Card Room Green on the walls.
Last weekend we started sowing seeds for the veg patch and there will be more work to do over the coming weeks. I’ve loved chucking dinner in the slowcooker and walking the dog every lunchtime in the sunshine – it makes a change to the cold darks walks.
I feel more relaxed and am sleeping better than usual – could be something to do with a 30 second commute 😆. I could really get used to this
Aw Claire it’s so refreshing to hear someone say that they’ve enjoyed the Lockdown time. I love card room green!
I think there is a massive novelty to working from home at first. I still really enjoy it at times, but to be honest, I desperately miss our office too. Soak up that enjoyment and rinse it for as long as you can. Any little joy we can take at this moment in time should be grabbed with both hands.