In fact over the years I’ve seen several. When I tell people they usually fall into one of two camps. The first are intrigued. They’ve often seen a psychic themselves, or know someone who has and had a how-could-they-possibly-know-that kind of reading. The second think it’s a load of rubbish, but funnily enough they’re usually interested enough to ask more about the experience.
The first time I saw a psychic was on a yoga retreat in Byron Bay. After a week of yoga and meditation I was way too blissed out to remember very much of what she told me.
Another time a friend got me a reading as a present. It all seemed very vague (I wanted specifics, damnit!) but months later, listening back to the recording, I was surprised at how accurate he’d been, naming every destination I’d visit on my year out, including some I hadn’t considered, and correctly predicting a major change of plans which neither of us could have seen coming.
One psychic I’ve seen three times.
The first time was in my previous life as a magazine editor. I was at an event to launch a new perfume, not long after my mum had died. I bumped into a friend on her way out who said, “You must see the psychic, she’s amazing.”
I put my name down on the long list (sod the perfume, everyone wanted to see the psychic). I waited around for much longer than I really should have done, bearing in mind the amount of work on my desk. Finally my turn came and I sat down for a ten-minute reading in a corner of the busy room.
I don’t remember very much of what she said. I don’t really remember very much of that time in my life at all to be honest, grief having pretty much erased my memory, but after the reading I felt an overwhelming sense of calm and that night I slept better than I had done in weeks.
Later that year I decided to see her for an hour-long session. My grief felt less all-consuming and instead of simply sleepwalking through my days I was starting to think about the future.
This time I went to her home. After turning off my mobile phone (so as not to block the psychic messages coming through, or something) I sat down at a small table in her cosy living room.
The session was in three parts, firstly a clairvoyant reading during which she talked me through the images and symbols that came into her head (yes, I know how that sounds and no, she doesn’t use a crystal ball). Then she read my palm, going back as far as my childhood, moving forwards to the present, and then looking to the future. Finally she laid out a selection of prettily-illustrated tarot cards to look at what the next six months held for me.
I’m not really given to self-reflection (although, y’know, perfectly happy to hand over fifty quid to have someone talk about, well, me) and throughout the session she nailed aspects of my personality that I’ve never really thought about. Afterwards I felt inspired and empowered. A couple of days later she sent me a recording of the session, which I listened back to, transcribing it pretty much word-for-word, and then I promptly forgot all about it.
At the tail end of the year, having handed in my notice on my job and about to embark on a gap year that would include a yoga teacher-training course and lots of travel, I went back to my notes.
Among other things she’d predicted that my future held a simpler way of life. She’d seen me visiting various countries with a rucksack on my back and said I would be spending time in a teaching environment. Although the thought of doing a yoga teacher-training course had crossed my mind, quitting my job and travelling hadn’t been part of my plan that day in her flat.
Yes, I suppose it could be the power of suggestion, but I really don’t think I’m so easily influenced that one session with a psychic would have me handing in my notice and hitting the road. I think there’s more to it than that and last week I went to see her again.
Without me telling her anything she immediately got what was going on in my life and head right now. When it comes to my future well, that would be telling, let’s just say it sounds exciting.
Have you ever seen a psychic? Something in it, or a load of old rubbish? Do share your thoughts.
I’ve not been to a psychic, but i have been to see a medium. However my mum went to see a psychic on Monday and was told that i would be moving home in April. (My husband & I have been trying to sell our flat for 4 months so far) so i hope this is going to happen.
Fingers crossed your house move happens as predicted Kirsty!
I have had a few readings (one was from quite a famous medium) I started having them after my daughter died and totally agree with you about feeling very calm afterwards. Anything that gives me hope that there might be something else or somewhere else is comforting to me. I don’t have specific one though I tend to flit about! x
So very sorry to hear about your loss Hayley, but glad to hear you’ve found some hope, comfort and calm. x
I am desperate to visit a psychic, and this has just confirmed my need! My cousin and my grandmother passed away at the end of 2013. My cousin’s wife went to visit a psychic and was amazed by what she was told, things only he would have known apparently, so I am keen to visit and see what comes of it. Any tips on how to find a good one? That seems the difficult part to me…
So very sorry to hear about the passing of your cousin and grandmother Sian. I would say to go with a personal recommendation if you can. And it might be a case of visiting a few before you find someone who’s a good fit.
Great subject Miranda! And well done on you for bringing it up as I’m sure a lot of people have seen them but are maybe too embarrased to say. I went to see one a few years ago and it was actually quite an enjoyable experience. Having said that, she spoke about the man I was seeing at the time and how he would be the one to really look after me and it turned out to be the complete opposite and I have always remembered that. So I might be wary of trying one again but I wouldn’t rule it out! x
I haven’t been to see a physic for a reading but my best friend’s mother-in-law reads astrological charts. We were due to go and stay at her house for an evening before traveling to a festival and asked my friend if we would like our charts read. She was offering to do it for free and usually charges £200 so both myself and my (now) husband said yes. All we had to provide was our exact times, dates & places of birth. I was skeptical as to what she could tell me based on this information but also interested to see what she had to say. I had never met her before and I know that my friend wouldn’t have spent her precious time giving her details about us so there was no way for her to know anything prior to the reading. We had our readings separately and I was astounded by the insights this woman whom I had never met made about my personality and relationships I had with various people (parents etc). She didn’t predict the future she just told us about ourselves, strengths, weaknesses etc and she was spot on. It was amazing. There has to be something in it. Although I am not sure I would pay for the service or be tempted to go to a psychic in the future.
I went to see a psychic a few years ago, and I didn’t find it particularly accurate. She said I would split up with my boyfriend within 6 months, however 7 years later we are married with a child. My gran was ill at the time, and the psychic tried to guess what was wrong but kept getting it wrong (her heart? Her chest? Her back?) which got a bit embarrassing. However, she did say that someone would pay for my driving lessons and within a week my employer offered to put me through driving lessons, so perhaps there is something to it.
I think it really depends on whether you have someone who is recommended/reliable (so to speak) or not. I saw a lady years ago, she didn’t get anything right really and was very “general” – plus she fished for info which I deliberately didn’t offer.
I’m tempted after Miranda’s experience, my Mum also saw a lady a few times who seemed to know most things without asking any questions – and predicted a few things which were frankly spookily correct.
For a variety of reasons I’ve never dabbled but I find it all fascinating.
Friends’ experiences have ranged from downright ludicrous to absolutely spot on.
Four years ago my friend had a Tarot reading and was told her new bloke was ‘dangerous’. She’s marrying him in a few months and we are yet to see any examples of his dangerous behaviour….
I had an amazing reading 12 months ago. She described my personality so accurately and my relationship with husband and family members.
I’d been particularly stressed with work when I saw her and although I can’t remember specifics (it’s on tape somewhere!) I will always remember the feeling in the room. When I sat down, I sunk into the chair and could not believe how relaxed and calm I felt. I’d been carrying so much stress around with me but like you, left feeling hopeful and more at peace. Very strange! Great post! x
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