I know most folks tend to consider their life goals at the beginning of the new year, I always tend to re-evaluate in March. I think it’s because it’s the month of my birthday (one year wiser – I like to put things I’ve leant into practice as it were) Spring is just around the corner and we are usually in the midst of planning a holiday or two.
This year March is also the month of Mabel’s birthday, she will be turning one and so many things will change almost all at once, which makes me both sad and secretly relieved in equal measure. We’ll be moving her from formula to whole milk, we endeavour to drop the dummy (wish us luck!) and it is becoming increasingly apparent that we need to re-think some of the furniture and layout of our home. Some areas are particularly non child friendly (really, I am not exaggerating) and now that Mabel is crawling at the speed of light and pulling herself up at every given opportunity we need to try and remove as many obvious dangers as we can.
I will no doubt shed a tear when the bottle steriliser makes it’s merry way to the loft. I shall however embrace significantly more kitchen counter surface area.
The whole “simple living” and “de-cluttering” motion seems to be very much on trend right now and I have to say, fashionable or not, I am firmly climbing aboard the less-is-more train. Since Mabel arrived we have acquired So. Much. Stuff. It’s not as if we didn’t expect it (many a weary space deprived parent pre-warned us) it’s just we seemed to have gotten ourselves into a situation where during this period of mass accumulation we seemingly haven’t disposed of anything at all.
I actually stood in my home office the other day looking into the depths of my giant cupboard (no, I didn’t share it in the interior feature..) at all the many shoot props, hardly used and discarded cosmetics and hair styling products, the vast array of un-read books… and realised I would feel infinitely more organised and well….just better if I had a good old sort out. Then I went and had a wee review of my closet (taking into account the many crates of clothes I know are already awaiting their new friend the bottle steriliser in the loft) and actually felt really quite annoyed with myself.
A few days and a thorough review of the rest of the house later I actually felt like some kind of bloody self-confessed hoarder. Who needs 136 bud vases?! Why do I have so many cake tins?! Why do we insist on keeping items we never use?!
Without wanting to get all dramarama on your serene Monday morning selves I can only describe it as feeling really quite suffocating. We are literally drowning in material goods and unwanted things.
As a general rule I’ve always been pretty good with Mabel’s belongings and necessary bits and bobs, at the end of every 3 month “growth” period I pack everything she has outgrown/no longer needs away in neatly labelled boxes – or throw/give away anything we just don’t see ourselves ever using again. I don’t really understand why I haven’t applied this method to my life in general. Out with the old in with the new as they say. And most definitely less new. And altogether more considered new.
So far I have made rather excellent progress with my wardrobe, chucking out an entire bin bag of pieces I have inadvertantly ruined/worn out/stretched during pregnancy and put together a box of bumpf ready for eBay (my track record for actually getting as far as listing anything on eBay is notoriously bad but just last week I sold both a pair of boots and a fancy bag and made over £100!)
I still have a LONG way to go but there is a whole 30 days of March left and I am majorly motivated to simplify the way we live, I’ll obviously update you on progress.
Other Lovely Things For Spring
1. As a family I would like us to spend more time outdoors, I think we need to be be braver with facing the unpredictable British climate, a bit of rain never hurt anyone. Plus, I can always buy a cool cagoule right?
I am genuinely looking forward to more long walks and if the sun does decide to make an appearance – picnics in the park.
2. I’m re-thinking the essentials in my kitchen cupboards. I want to be able to make quick and easy but ultimately fresh dishes without too much faff, so far it’s been fun and we’ve added a few delicious and nutritious recipes to our evening meal repertoire.
3. I’m going to take more pictures. And learn at least the fundamental basics of good photography, I don’t want my new camera to become an item that sits gathering dust along with the multiple cake tins.
4. Flowers make me happy. REALLY happy. I shall be not having less of those but more. Many more. Hopefully I will be able to take half decent pictures of them. Now then, what was it I was saying about those 136 bud vases…….
What are your spring clean plans for March?
Was there anything you did in particular when your littles turned one in terms of moving onto cows milk/dummy disposal?
Any methods you can recommend I adopt in order to simplify my life as a whole?
I’m with you on the less is more approach, after reading this I’ve made a little March goal to get my wardrobe sorted – if it hasn’t been worn in a year it’s going in the recycling bin / ebay – look out clothes!
Also on the moving onto cows milk, we did it gradually which worked really well for our daughter. Over a week or so we dropped the formula by a few mls at at time and topped up with cows milk, she transitioned really well and 2 years on still loves her milk at bedtime.
Hope Mabel has a wonderful 1st birthday and you have a successful March de-clutter!
Thanks Tracey! I think we too will be taking the gradual approach as much as we can – there is no denying Mabel loves her milk!
Good luck with eBay, it’s time consuming but worth it in the end x
I am on board the declutter train at the moment. I got a lovely new wardrobe a few weeks ago but it meant I had to downsize the clothing hoard I had accumulated. Anything that didn’t fit or wasn’t being worn is out. On Saturday I took three bin bags of clothes to a local charity shop and threw another bag out. I like this charity shop as they send a letter to say how much your items raise. My last haul raised them £41.
I am trying to claim back the spare bedroom to turn it into an office, but at present it looks like Stig of the Dump lives there. Last year’s annual decluttering uncovered four hoovers! I still have no idea how we many to collect so many.
I think I tend do do these jobs at this time of year as March is my birthday too (if I remember rightly it is the day after yours) and I tend to book some annual leave. The sunny early springs days just want to make you want to leap out of bed and do something constructive.
Happy birthday to you and Mabel!
Thanks Claire, and happy birthday to you too! I do believe we also have a few broken hoovers (!)
I also have a few bags for the charity shop – really must get on with actually taking them! x
We are being forced to declutter as we’re moving next month! I started this yesterday with one of the many messy just throw it in there drawers! So that’s one drawer down and a whole lot more to go.
We will have less storage space where we are moving to so a declutter is much needed, especially on the clothes front. I’m pretty good at being ruthless but my other half is definitely not. Last time we looked through clothes and I put a large pile of t-shirts I have never seen him wear to one side. He allowed my to donate one … ONE to charity!
Wish me luck, I may need it 🙂
Good luck Lynn! I hope the move goes really well – we are currently house hunting (well we started two years ago then stopped and have now started again!) and I really want to get rid of so much stuff before we move x
De-clutter month for us too. We’ve only been in the house for just over a year and I’m pretty sure we put a sofa bed in the spare room when we moved in….just haven’t seen it in a while. The charity shop pile is growing and the bucket is constantly full. We have a deadline now seeing as I have to turn junk room into nursery over the next few months so that definitely helps focus the mind. Tonight’s job is the box full of cables and chargers. Shifting the ‘but I might need one of those’ mentality is really hard but needs must. I’ll be going with the ‘used within the year?’ theory and also if I don’t have the camera/phone/printer/hair thing anymore then do I really need the charger?
Happy chucking out month everyone 🙂
Steph! chargers and plugs are also one of our “issues” as in – what did it belong too?! like you said, if we don’t know/haven’t got the original then it should go in the bin!!! x
Very much hope this doesn’t come across as all “woe is me…get the violins out” but when we moved from our 1 bed flat into my in-laws (for what was only meant to be 6 months but turned out to be 18…the last 6 months of which was with baby having arrived…!!) we had to pack away anything “non-essential” to be stored either in the spare room with us at the in-laws or in my parents loft. So, not only did we have a massive chuck out of not needed stuff, we then lived without all this other stuff for 18months! Admittedly some of it was kitchen stuff and essentials like the hoover etc that we had at the in-laws, but its amazing how we learnt to live with so little. Money has been and still is extremely tight with saving for our house, having a baby and me going down to part time work so we just haven’t been able to buy stuff for the sake of it whether it be food, clothes, toiletries, make up, bits for George, stuff for the home, books, music, gadgets…anything really as every penny is scrutinised!! I think being pregnant helped me to realise how few clothes I actually need as there was no way I was spending oodles on things I was only going to wear for a few months so now I have such a small wardrobe of stuff (not quite a capsule wardrobe exactly but trying to get there!) and i’m fine with it. We are now 6 months into living in our new home and pretty much all the boxes are unpacked and most things have a home. It does feel nice to know that everything we have is used and needed and hopefully as we are being so careful with purchases we won’t aqcuire too much clutter! However the one thing we do need to de-clutter is paperwork. I hate it! As I am now working from home too i’m concerned that the spare room/ study is going to turn into another dumping ground for it all. We just seem to have stuff everywhere, receipts, notepads full of lists and room measurements, vouchers for money off, bills, info on all sorts of things…I just want to make it so much more streamlined so that we can hopefully keep up to date with everything and then potentially save ourselves some more pennies through any discounts/ offers etc that we do get that currently just reside in the bottom of one of 3 or 4 various baskets around the house. Just wish I was a little bit more techy so I could make use of one of the apps out there for organising things like that!
Similarly the next few months for us will be all about child-proofing as George is now into everything! Any advice on the best/ cheapest plug socket protectors/ door latches/ door stoppers will be very much welcomed!!
Hi Lucette! it sounds as if you are very clutter free, quite jealous actually. An app would be brilliant – I could certainly do with one.
We bought lots of socket protector from Amazon, very cheap – a few quid for 24 x
Definitely something about spring being on its way that calls for a decluttering. Started unpacking some boxes that have remained untouched since we moved in two years ago!! We have been doing building work so not as bad as it seems, honestly…! Decluttering is always so satisfying though. I am also making it my mission to understand my camera. My lovely husband gave me a wonderful new camera for my birthday, but I have so far only used the (fabulous) auto function and I really want to learn how to use it properly. We are going on holiday in a few weeks and I am determined to master some of the functions by then! And I heartily approve of flowers around the house, I love them but rarely feel I can justify the cost, but daffodils are great at this time of year.
Good luck with all your goals! x
I so need a good declutter! I seem to amass amazing amounts of stuff that I’m sure we don’t need although I blame my husband as he is turning in to a right hoarder and I constantly find tools, broken sunglasses he may fix one day etc etc!
In terms of moving to real milk we’ve never been successful and Molly is 3!! Its been formula all the way for us. As I type we are away on a family holiday and both me and my husband thought we packed the formula. We didn’t! Luckily Molly doesn’t need to have it anymore, she just likes it, so as she told me the full fat milk tonight tasted funny she has gone to bed without! Alice has never bothered and will drink either. We did half and half to start with although I sometimes think just going with it might be easier. I still can’t work out if it is cheaper than the formula or not. We didn’t loose Molly’s dummy till she was 2 and 1/2 when she was old enough to know and the dummy fairy visited. I felt so bad though so think younger may be easier but be prepared for some sleepless nights and a bit of rocking to sleep. Good luck!
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Well done on the decluttering Charlotte, there is something so therapeutic about it, isn’t there. We had a major declutter before we moved down South to our new home 18 months ago and I had a car full of stuff for the car boot sale / charity shops.
I’ve just gone through another declutter as Baby K No. 2 is imminent (in fact he or she is officially 3 days late!!) and need to make room for all the baby stuff / clothes that will be coming our way. Unfortunately we don’t have enough bedrooms so it won’t have a nursery until we move again and therefore will be sharing mine and Isabella’s room for all his / her stuff. Aaarghhh!!
I must admit I am a bit of a hoarder and it drives my husband mad but I do think I’ve got better over the years and am trying to cut down on certain ‘stuff’, I know what you mean about vases / kitchen implements etc. amazing how many you accumulate!
I couldn’t wait until we didn’t have to use the steriliser and I think I pretty much stopped it the day Isabella turned 1 and we didn’t even bother about doing to gradually, we just gave her the full fat milk the following day. To be honest I don’t think she even really noticed!! Unfortunately she is now 3.5 and we’re still on milk in a bottle……whoops!! We now have a HUGE array of drinking cups in my bid to wean her off and nothing seems to work, she simply won’t have milk in anything else! And because we don’t give her any fruit juice (just water and milk), I don’t feel too bad but I know she needs to stop soon. Defo not making that mistake with the next one!
Anyway good luck with the rest of your declutter / Mabel proofing and wishing you both a very Happy Birthday. I hope you’ll be sharing her birthday party styling on here 🙂 xx
I can totally relate to this post! A house full of too many unnecessary possessions makes me feel claustrophobic, but my husband is a hoarder through and through! Even though we relocated 18m ago and had a MASSIVE clear out beforehand, I still have a huge urge to de-clutter at the moment! I think it has to be a constant process when you have children. Their ‘stuff’ builds up so quickly if you don’t…. clothes that don’t fit, toys they don’t play with etc etc. I’ve already sorted a few bags for the charity shop and I’m itching to list some items on eBay too.
Having just emigrated with a measly 30kg baggage allowance I (a self-confessed ex-hoarder) wish I had caught the declutter-bug before I tried to cram my almost 30 years of possessions into a small two-bed terrace when moving in with my now husband…of course I will need those carefully highlighted notes I never even read at uni one day. How nice is it to have wardrobe space and Tupperware that actually has a fitting lid?!
Ha – I too still have highlighted notes from uni that I can’t bear to throw away. Depressingly I don’t even understand them any more…!