I put a pause on doing seasonal to-do lists when I was dealing with infertility. I found far too many people seemed to be wishing their lives away and personally couldn’t look that far forward.
This autumn it all feels a little different though. James returns to work tomorrow after having three months off work and Felix starts nursery later this week. As you can imagine I’m feeling a tad discombobulated by the whole thing. Now September’s here it feels like a time for fresh starts and looking forward. (Not that far forward through. You’ll find no mention of the C word just yet).
We’ve had a blast over the summer and to make sure we made the most of this very special and unique time, we made a list at the start of the season of a few places we’d like to visit and several activities we wanted to enjoy. (Most of which I mentioned over on my recent spending less post).
I do like the idea of getting out and about while the days are still mild so we’ve got a few National Trust trips planned. There are loads of scarecrow festivals around these parts, not to mention the wealth of pumpkin hunts. Nearby towns have food festivals and farmers markets and then Oktobefest pops up in a new city every year. If I pull my finger out in time we might just be able to squeeze in a Maize Maze too.
Each September thousands of volunteers across the country invite you to experience local history, architecture and culture all for free! There are more than 5000 Heritage Open Days around the UK. Have a look at their website to find out what’s going on in your area. If you’re around London then there’s the Open House Weekend on September 21st-22nd if you fancy a bit of a snoop.
Baby-free Overnight Stay
As much as I adore my little boy, I do think it’s healthy to have some adult time once in a while. It’s our wedding anniversary in November and so we’re planning on staying away overnight while Felix has a sleepover at his grandparents. The question is, where to go though? Relaxing spa in the Cotswolds or a night out in the Big Smoke? Would love to hear where you went for your first baby-free trip
I made a bit of a clothing resolution in the Spring to only buy items with pattern or colour as my rails are awash with grey and black. It kind of went to plan. I mean, I didn’t buy any drab threads, but actually I didn’t buy anything at all! I’ve just ordered this floaty dress from Asos to wear for my sister’s birthday celebrations which isn’t autumnal in any way. However I’m hoping it’ll get me on the colour bandwagon. Last autumn I was in maternity and post-partum get-ups so this year I feel like I deserve some more luxey pieces.
Autumn Beach Walks
Northamptonshire is about the furthest you can get from the sea so it’s a bit of a mission to get to the coast. The charm of the out of season beach is too much of a pull though. Who doesn’t love pulling on their wellies and trudging along the dunes on a bright autumnal day? We might head back to Southwold where we went a few years ago.
Last year we paid a small fortune to have our chimney sorted. I won’t bore you with the details but it’s now safe to have a fire in our house! I think there’s something ceremonious about the first time a log is thrown on the fire and the kindling bucket is filled. Not quite the same feeling as flicking the switch on the heating for the first time.
Felix turns the ripe old age of one in 8 and a bit weeks. This blows my mind. As much as my brain can’t compute I no longer have a newborn, I obviously want to mark the occasion with some form of shindig.
We all know first birthday parties are for the adults so I flit between having a mega celebration or a teeny tea party for the family. Both have their pros and cons and so the debate continues. How long can I leave it before I decide?
I had my first crumble of 2019 on Sunday. We’ve got loads of apples in our garden and there are heaps of blackberries in the hedgerows. Time to get a crumble in the oven. This recipe from BBC Good Food with oats in the topping is one of my favourites.
What are you looking forward to over the next few months? Any days out or trips away you’ve got planned? Any advice on first birthday celebrations?
If a to-list isn’t on your agenda then this post might bring a little smirk to your face.